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Diabetes and Men's Health: Addressing Intimacy Concerns

Yiwen Lu, MS, RD
November 12, 2023
December 8, 2023

Did you know that around 37.3 million Americans, or roughly 1 in 10 people, are dealing with diabetes? It's a widespread issue, and it comes with its fair share of complications like nephropathy (kidney disease), neuropathy (nerve damage causing numbness and pain), and retinopathy (eye problems). However, there's an often-overlooked aspect of this health challenge: sexual dysfunction. When your blood sugar stays high for a long time, it can mess with your nerves and blood vessels,which can lead to issues in the bedroom. A study in 2021 found that 69.5% of men with diabetes experienced this. Moreover, a study in 2022 revealed that nearly 60% of men with diabetes dealt with erectile dysfunction. Here's the kicker, though: even though diabetes increases the risk of sexual problems, a study in Diabetes Care showed that only half of diabetic men talked about them with their doctors.

In this article, we’ll delve into the sexual health concerns that men with diabetes might face and discuss strategies to manage and address these issues proactively.

Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Erectile dysfunction, commonly known as ED, is one of the most prevalent sexual health concerns among men with diabetes. A study found that ED is almost threefold higher in men with diabetes (51.3%) compared to men without diabetes (18.4%). ED is caused by prolonged elevated blood sugar levels that damage blood vessels and nerves which can reduce the blood flow to the penis and impairing the ability to achieve and maintain an erection.

Managing ED:

  • Talk to your healthcare provider about treatments like medications or devices.
  • Keep your blood sugar in check with meds, diet, and exercise; it can help with your performance.
  • Quit smoking and limit your alcohol intake for better sexual health.

Reduced Libido

Men with diabetes may experience a decrease in your libido, or sexual desire. Consistently high blood sugar levels can interfere with the body's ability to produce and effectively utilize testosterone. Additionally, the stress of managing diabetes may also lead to a reduced libido.

Managing Reduced Libido:

  • Talk to your partner about changes in desire; it helps build a stronger emotional connection
  • Address any underlying psychological factors by seeking counseling or therapy.
  • Consult with a healthcare provider to rule out hormonal imbalances and discuss potential treatments.

Premature Ejaculation

Diabetes might lead to premature ejaculation. One contributing factor to premature ejaculation in diabetes is heightened sensitivity in the genital area, a result of diabetes affecting nerve function. Another aspect of premature ejaculation in diabetes is related to anxiety and stress surrounding sexual performance. The daily regimen of managing diabetes, which involves tasks such as monitoring blood sugar levels, taking medications, and adhering to dietary restrictions, can be a significant source of stress. This chronic stress can then affect sexual experiences.

Managing Premature Ejaculation:

  • Practice relaxation techniques and mindfulness exercises to reduce anxiety.
  • Consider using specific techniques or medications designed to delay ejaculation, as recommended by a healthcare provider.
  • Maintain a healthy lifestyle to improve overall sexual function.

Neuropathy and Nerve Damage

On the other hand, neuropathy can result in decreased sensitivity and difficulties in achieving orgasm. Neuropathy is a condition marked by nerve damage which can manifest in various parts of the body, including the extremities and organs. Within the realm of sexual function, neuropathy can impact the nerves responsible for transmitting signals associated with sexual pleasure and sensation. When these nerves sustain damage, their proper and efficient functioning can be compromised.

Managing Neuropathy and Nerve Damage:

  • Maintain good blood sugar control to prevent or slow down nerve damage.
  • Use lubricants or other aids to enhance sensitivity and comfort during sexual activity.
  • Discuss alternative ways to achieve sexual satisfaction with your partner.

Retrograde Ejaculation

In some cases, diabetes can cause retrograde ejaculation, where semen is ejaculated into the bladder instead of exiting the penis. This can cause a lack of sexual satisfaction and may raise concerns about sterility.

Managing Retrograde Ejaculation:

  • Consult a urologist or specialist to diagnose and address this issue.
  • Certain medications may help prevent retrograde ejaculation.
  • Explore assisted reproductive technologies if fertility is a concern.


While diabetes can indeed pose challenges to a man's sexual health and intimacy, the good news is that these concerns can often be effectively addressed. By seeking guidance from healthcare providers, maintaining excellent blood sugar control, and nurturing open communication with partners, it's entirely possible to maintain a fulfilling and satisfying intimate life, even in the presence of diabetes.

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